Healing is a process.

We don’t know when it ends, but the start is only up to us. I get how hard it can be, I know how painful it can be, but in the end we’ll be renewed. Healing is like looking at a flower, it’s like sowing seeds, taking care of the earth, taking away everything that can prejudice its growth…

Healing is a process. We may think we’re “alone” in this, but above it all, God is for us. Yes, the Almighty Lord, He’s waiting for your decision. He’s waiting for your first step. He’s waiting for you to forgive yourself, He’s waiting for you to believe more in Him, and less in people’s opinions.

Things won’t happen overnight, but the change begins within yourself, the self love grows inside your heart, and you’ll be free. I promise you, you’ll be truly free!

The choice is ours. We decide.

I wish I could give you the tightest hug right now. Be a listener, be your closest friend. But for now, I’m just here, miles away from you, but somehow close to your heart while you read this post.

I wrote this, because I have faith in God and this process. I believe. I care because I know how precious your soul is. You’re gonna find this purpose, I know. I have faith.

Wherever you are, may God bless and protect you from all evil.


“… just let the pain remind you hearts can heal.”



How To Deal With Rejection


Here’s the truth, some people won’t like you.

But you know what? You don’t have to fear their rejection.

You don’t have to live your life wondering why they didn’t accept you.

You don’t have to make them want you. You don’t have to spend your time trying to create situations that will bring them close to you, or even do what they want to please them. You don’t have to change your ways just to fit in, just to belong in their group.

The truth is, they won’t like you anyway, and they’ll end up judging you.

Do you wanna know what you should do?

Love them anyway, and move on. Move on with your life, keeping compassion and positivity in your heart for those who need. Keeping a smile on your face. Being yourself, because, keeping your heart clean, not dwelling in bad feelings, and your thoughts pure, someday, you’ll attract people who will appreciate you for who you are, and will embrace you.

After all that, you’ll meet more people, and amidst your journey, guess what, you’re gonna find more people who’ll dislike you.

That’s the way life works, but, fortunately, we can choose what kind of battles fight. We can choose whose gonna be in our lives, the things we’ll consider important, and how we’re gonna spend our time, give energy and attention to.

So be wise! Some people won’t love you, and that’s ok. It happens. What truly matters is how you see yourself. What you’re gonna do, how you’re gonna deal with it. Rejection ain’t easy! I must confess, that I almost never knew how to understand this, I almost failed at most of the times, but thank God for maturity! 🙌🏽

I can’t feel completely responsible for that. I can’t obligate them to feel something for me, I just can’t.

Some people won’t support me. Some people won’t recognize my efforts. Some people won’t find my beauty. Some people won’t find me interesting, or worthy of their friendship. Some people will always diminish my dreams, and assume I’m unprepared. Some people just won’t understand my choices and way of living – most of them just won’t have valid reasons to dislike me.

Some people just won’t understand the fact that I’m not like them. Some of them will always have a reason to talk about me, or don’t talk about me at all… like they might just not acknowledge my presence! Yes, I can be invisible for them too… I might never be known or popular among them… I might never cross their minds or conversations…

But if I have God for me, and myself, who’s gonna stop me? Who’s gonna hold me back? If I have and value the love of The Almighty God, and treasure and obey His Word and believe in His promises for my life, who’s gonna try to tell me the opposite? Who’s gonna bring me down? Who’s gonna make me feel sad and unworthy?


Love yourself, but this time wholeheartedly and with confidence.

Keep your head up!




Faith, Hope and Love

That’s right my friends, we are living the first days of 2018, and the special message that I want to leave here for you, is a verse that God spoke to my heart, the moment I started thinking about something to publish here.

“And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”
1 Corinthians 13:13

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Thinking of how to go forward, how to tread my walk this year, those words came to my mind and inspired my heart.

You can not live without FAITH

Faith is what binds us directly to God, it is the certainty of what we do not yet see, it is the reability that moves us. The confidence that gives us the conditions to fight. Without faith, it’s impossible to please God. The righteous shall live by faith. Whatever achievement we aspire to, whether on the spiritual, material, soul, or body level, we can only reach and establish what we desire through faith.

Faith is power. Faith is relationship. Faith is communication through prayer. How can we speak to God without having the full conviction that He’s listening to us?

If we have FAITH, we need to WAIT for something, and how can we expect good things without HOPE?

To have HOPE is to know that something is possible, it is the expectation that drives us. It’s that smile on your face when you apply for something. Hope is to expect something good, it is to take the eyes of what is temporary and glimpse the future. I believe that this hope that I’m talking about here, is to share your plans with God. Glimpse Heaven, and know how important this is.

When faith and hope go together, the human being becomes capable of realizing his best and biggest dreams. The human being materializes the plans that God has for his life. These two are great pillars of life. A person without these two pillars is incomplete. He lives in “a world without color”, without perspective.

To have hope these days is to go against the world. We turn on the TV, we read newspaper, log in on our social media for a few minutes, and we see a “flood of tragedies” and not-so-promising futures… when we live in hope, we nullify this negativity, and we want to see the vision of what God wants for us!

But there is still more important to talk about: LOVE!

Yes, LOVE is the greatest of these!

What would we be without Love? I believe that every human being is born with the first and most important “of Loves”, that of God for us! Whoever accompanies the blog, knows that I am Christian, and when I speak of this Love, I am not talking about religion! Religion, in my opinion, only gets in the way. Religion separates, detain people by mere rules, creates dissentions, and ultimately kills (kills both spiritually and physically).

When I speak of Love, it is impossible not to relate the decision I made, this pure feeling, to follow the God that I believe! I never forget a verse in the Bible that says that we’re recognized as children of God, only when we love, when we carry this love within us! And in the Bible, book of 1 Corinthians 13, Paul says:

If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing.
1 Corinthians 13: 2,3

If your intentions aren’t covered in love, it’s no use doing what you do. There is no point in possessing everything in the material matter, if you do not have love. Understand that without true love, no kind of relationship lasts. If you do not love God above all things, if you do not love yourself, if you do not love your neighbor (or fail in some of these steps), you’ll be nothing, nothing will matter.

Love is the beginning of every relationship. Love is the basis. Faithfulness, for example, grows with Love. To be the image and likeness of God, begins when we love Him, when we love those who are on our side, no matter who they are. We stand for Love.

Do not exchange Love for coldness. Do not annihilate LOVE within you because of traumas, sorrows, sadness, disappointments… who remains in LOVE, is justified.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8

I want to continue in 2018, with a lot of FAITH. I want to have HOPE, good expectations, because only then, I can run after something that serves as an experience for me! And of course, have lots of LOVE inside of me!

Notice how these pillars are connected! I hope I have been able to explain a little of what I received. I wish that your 2018 will be the year in which you put into practice FAITH, HOPE and LOVE! That you count on God, may you trust Him with all your heart. You can count on me too, leave messages, comments… it will always be a pleasure to answer them. I ask with great affection, that you share this post, maybe it reaches someone who needs this message!

XO and I wish you a HAPPY NEW YEAR, I love you all!

May we continue together on this journey!


The Truth About You


I know how it’s like to live under people’s judgement. I know how it feels to be bombarded with negative comments. Believe me, I didn’t have an easy life, for years I had so many bad thoughts, feelings and complexes. I gave up on so many opportunities, — you might know what our lives can become when we live like this, and also, we become person that we were never meant to be. I went through so much, I fought so many battles, that I’m sure that I wouldn’t win if I didn’t have God by my side. Who you see today, was molded my God. I chose to pray for that people. I forgave myself, I forgave them.

Going through that phase, I learned how to see the good in people. I learned the power of forgiveness and self love. I learned about God’s truth. His truth can’t be changed, and He says that I am precious, loved and by grace and faith in Him I can reach a new life, and that’s what I did. With confidence I embraced His truth about me and stopped listening to those who only wanted to bring me down with words or attitudes towards me. Who you see today, decided to live through God’s perspective. I learned to listen to what really matters.

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Hey you, reading this, I really hope you keep being positive, keep being mature, you don’t need to live under people’s approval. I hope you embrace God’s truth for you. Don’t let any comments (or self thoughts), turn into sadness, or any other kind of bad feeling, instead, love them and ignore their “death words”. Remembering of my own experiences, made me feel able to write about this and, of course, made me think even more about people surrounding me, and everyone that might need this encouragement.

Don’t give up, you can choose a different future, write a different story. God has this direction for you. ❤️ You’re loved and appreciated, don’t let anyone else define you, because God’s truth and desire are completely different from what the world has taught you so far.

He wants you.


Frases Inspiradoras #8


Your purpose and calling isn’t for you, it’s for people who are in need and for God’s glory. Your “yes” to God means more than you think.

Seu propósito, vocação, não é para você, é para as pessoas que precisam e para a glória de Deus. O seu “sim” para Deus, significa mais do que você pensa.

Every time you get negative thoughts ask yourself, “but what does God’s word say?” His word is always true, it overpowers your thoughts…

Toda vez que você receber pensamentos negativos, pergunte a si mesmo, “mas o que a palavra de Deus diz?” A palavra dEle é sempre verdadeira, ela supera seus pensamentos…

Your obedience, faithfulness, and perspective to the Lord in the midst of the wilderness will always determine the outcome of that season.

Sua obediência, fidelidade e perspectiva no Senhor no meio do deserto, sempre determinará o resultado desse período.

The worse thing you can do is compromise who you are in Christ to fit someone else’s standard. Jesus should be your only standard… period.

A pior coisa que você pode fazer é comprometer quem você é em Cristo, para se adequar ao padrão de outra pessoa. Jesus deve ser seu único padrão… ponto final.

God will always bring something to your attention, but it’s your choice to take heed of the very thing(s) that He’s trying to show you.

Deus sempre trará algo a sua atenção, mas é sua escolha ter o cuidado em guardar as coisas que Ele está tentando te mostrar.

Sometimes things aren’t even “bad” for you, they’re just not meant for you.. & that’s ok. Accept the doors that God closes & keep pressing.

Às vezes, as coisas sequer são “ruins” para você, elas apenas não são para você… e está tudo bem. Aceite as portas que Deus fecha e continue seguindo.

If you’re trying to deliver a message and your intentions/motives behind delivering it aren’t pure, just throw the whole message away.

Se você está tentando entregar uma mensagem e suas intenções, motivos por trás da entrega, não são puras, jogue a mensagem inteira fora.

Cling to God when you’re at your highest & lowest point. Don’t make Him a priority in your life when you want Him to be. He isn’t optional.

Apegue-se a Deus quando estiver no seu ponto mais alto e  no ponto mais baixo. Não faça dEle uma prioridade na sua vida quando você quer que ele seja. Ele não é opcional.

All these beautiful quotes can be found in @JemiahMB‘s account on Twitter! I love and admire you Jemiah, God bless you even more, thank you for sharing your thoughts and relationship with God!

I really hope you guys liked the post, please, don’t forget to leave a comment and if you want, share with your loved ones! Thank you for being here, reading this post! XOXO.

Todas essas frases podem ser encontradas no perfil da @JemiahMB. Todas são de autoria dela! Espero que vocês tenham gostado! Não se esqueçam de compartilhar com quem você ama!

Beijos da Deise!


Love Wins


When things are hard, remember, Love wins.

When you’re feeling heavy, do not forget, Love wins.

When recognition doesn’t come, please know that, Love wins.

When everything seems lost, take a deep breath, Love wins.

When tears come to your eyes, Love wins.

Yes, Love wins, so any sacrifice is valid, it is valid to love, it’s valid to wish the good to others, even when it is not reciprocal.

Fear, lack of patience, laziness, vices, anger, hatred, revenge, slander, lack of strength, when you feel like giving up, inferiority complex, negativity, loneliness, any kind of pain. Love conquers anything.

Love conquers all, Love will always win!

We can BE Love. We can SPREAD Love.

I wrote this, months ago, when I was extremely sad. I shared this weight on my shoulders with someone I love, and she gave me another perspective, through these words: “love wins”.

After that, I felt so inspired, so strong again. That fear was gone. God used this person to talk to me. And now, I felt deep in my heart that I needed to share this here, with you, reading this, who’s going through hard times in your life.

You are not alone. You are loved. Talk to someone you know, you don’t have to carry this weight alone! (Please, read You Will Find Rest too) You’ve got a friend in me, if you wanna talk, I’m here for you! I don’t know what you’re going through, I don’t know how you’re feeling, but let me tell you something, everything will be okay. You’ll overcome this, God is with you. Have an amazing September, and may God bless you in every aspect of your life 🙂

“Just remember even your worst days only have 24 hours.” ― Moosa Rahat


Quando estiver difícil, lembre-se, o Amor vence.

Quando estiver pesado, não se esqueça, o Amor vence.

Quando o reconhecimento não vem, saiba, o Amor vence.

Quando tudo parecer perdido, respire fundo, o Amor vence.

Quando as lágrimas vierem aos olhos, o Amor vence.

Sim, o Amor vence, por isso é válido qualquer sacrifício, é válido amar, desejar o bem para a outra pessoa, mesmo quando não é recíproco.

O medo, a falta de paciência, a preguiça, os vícios, a raiva, o ódio, a vingança, a maledicência, a falta de força, a vontade de desistir, complexo de inferioridade, negatividade, solidão, qualquer tipo de dor. O Amor vence qualquer coisa.

O Amor venceo Amor sempre vencerá!

Nós podemos SER o Amor. Nós podemos ESPALHAR o Amor.

Escrevi esse pequeno texto, meses atrás. Compartilhei um sentimento que estava carregando dentro de mim, com alguém que eu amo, e essa pessoa me deu outra perspectiva, falando essa frase para mim: “o amor vence”.

Depois disso, senti-me tão inspirada! Deus falou comigo através dela. E agora, senti que precisava compartilhar esse texto aqui, com você, que está passando por momentos difíceis em sua vida.

Em mim, você tem uma amiga. Conte comigo, se precisar conversar, é só entrar em contato, estarei bem aqui! Não sei o que está acontecendo com você, não sei o que você pode estar passando, mas não se preocupe, vai dar tudo certo, porque o amor vencerá e Deus é contigo.

Que esse mês seja abençoado em todos os sentidos!

@senhoritadeise ♡ @blogsrtadeise ♡ @blogsenhoritadeise

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